What people are saying.

  • "Joe gave me a copy of Lead Don’t Blame at the lowest point of my separation. I was angry, bitter, and ready to point the finger at everyone else. This book shifted everything for me. Instead of drowning in blame, I started focusing on what I could control. It gave me practical tools to rebuild myself and show up better for my kids. It’s not just a book — it’s a lifeline."

    — Daniel, 39

  • "After my divorce, I felt like I’d failed as a man, partner, and father. Reading Lead Don’t Blame helped me see that I wasn’t broken — I just needed to face my pain with courage. The way Joe breaks it down is real and raw, but also practical. Today, I’m more connected with my children and I’ve started to rebuild my self-respect."

    — Michael, 45

  • "So many books talk at you, but Lead Don’t Blame spoke to me. It felt like Joe knew exactly what I was going through. His honesty and strategies helped me step out of the blame cycle and start making better decisions. This book gave me a roadmap to rebuild, and it’s made a massive difference in how I handle challenges."

    — Steve, 42

  • "Working with Joe was different from any coach I’ve had. He’s not just throwing theory at you — he’s lived it. He understands the pain men go through because he’s walked that path himself. That authenticity made it easy to open up, and for the first time, I felt like someone truly got me."

    — Aaron, 37

  • "What stood out about Joe was how relatable he is. He doesn’t pretend life is perfect or easy — he’s real about the struggles men face, especially as fathers. That made me trust him. His guidance comes from experience, not a textbook, and that made all the difference in my ability to take action."

    — Chris, 41

  • "Joe has this unique ability to connect with you where you are, without judgment. He’s been through the fire and come out stronger, and that makes his coaching powerful. His support gave me the tools and mindset to step up, not just for myself but for my kids. Working with him has been one of the best decisions I’ve made as a father."

    — Mark, 44